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Most people don't. Whether you have a specific question, you're not sure where to start, or you just need to talk to someone who knows this territory — this is the right place to begin. Book a call on the calendar here or by contacting below.

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Messages are responded to within 24–48 hours. If your situation is urgent — if someone you love is in active decline and you need support now — please say so in your message and I will prioritize your response.

Here's what people ask most

What exactly is a death doula?

A death doula (also called an end-of-life doula) is a non-medical professional trained to support dying individuals and their families through the end-of-life process — emotionally, practically, educationally, and sometimes spiritually. Think of me as a knowledgeable, experienced guide who helps everyone involved feel less lost and more supported. I'm not a nurse, an attorney, or a financial advisor — I'm the person who sits in the gap between all of those and makes sure you understand what's happening and what your options actually are.

How is a death doula different from hospice?

Hospice is an essential medical service — and if you or someone you love needs it, please contact them as soon as possible. But hospice has limits (thanks, Medicare). I complement hospice by providing more time, more individualized attention, more advocacy, and more availability. We're not either/or. We're better together.

What is advance care planning, and why does it matter?

Advance care planning is the process of documenting your healthcare wishes, naming the people who will make decisions on your behalf if you can't, and making sure everyone who needs to know actually knows. It's not just a legal form — done right, it's a values-based roadmap that protects your family from having to make impossible decisions without guidance. It's the most important thing most people have never done, and it's exactly where I start with almost every client.

Do I have to be facing a terminal illness to work with you?

Absolutely not. In fact, the most powerful thing you can do is plan before you need it. Advance care planning is for anyone who has people they love and wishes they'd like honored. The earlier you start, the better protected everyone is.

Is everything confidential?

100%. Everything shared in our work together stays private and confidential — full stop.

Do you only work with people in Minnesota?

Nope. I work both virtually and in-person, which means I can work with you from anywhere. No commutes, no scheduling gymnastics. Just real support when and where you need it.

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FREE 5-DAY EMAIL COURSE

Go from dreading end-of-life conversation to meaningful family dialogue (without the drama!)

Not having these conversations costs peace of mind, the risk of stressful crisis decisions, and the fear of repeating painful death experiences. This free course changes that. In five short daily emails, you get a framework for confidently sharing end-of-life wishes and achieving peace of mind, even if your family has never talked about death.

Whatever brought you here...

a diagnosis, a loss, a long-overdue conversation you're finally ready to have — I'm glad you found your way. Reach out. It's the hardest step, but I make it as easy as possible.

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Minneapolis, MN-based death doula and advance care planner. Personalized end-of-life solutions for busy GenX professionals and families.

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