VIRTUAL DEATH DOULA

Personalized, approachable end-of-life planning and support

I'm a corporate marketer turned death doula who helps help busy professionals and their families get the help they need to get the end of life they deserve.

VIRTUAL DEATH DOULA

Personalized, approachable end-of-life planning and support

I'm a corporate marketer turned death doula who helps help busy GenX professionals and their families get the help they need to get the end of life they deserve.

VIRTUAL DEATH DOULA

Personalized, approachable end-of-life planning and support

I'm a corporate marketer turned death doula who helps help busy professionals and their families get the help they need to get the end of life they deserve.

It’s time to further build on the good life you've planned

Because...

  • Continuing to have an end-of-life plan on your to do list isn't the best way to get what you want

  • And certainly isn't the only (or best) way to make sure wishes are honored if someone is facing a serious illness

  • And hoping people will figure things out around this very sensitive topic isn’t wise, either.

Did you know 570 hours is the average time
it takes an executor to close an estate?

Did you know 570 hours is the average time it takes an executor to close an estate?

I've worked with you for decades. You don't have that kind of time, and even if you did... it cuts into your ability to grieve and live your life.

Virtual and in-person end-of life services

Whether you're being proactive, navigating an active diagnosis, or somewhere in between — there's a place to start.

Here's how we can work together:

Advance care planning

A clear, values-based plan tells your family and medical team exactly what matters to you. State-specific documents, wishes documented, and peace of mind of knowing if something happens tomorrow, the people you love know exactly what you want — without guessing, arguing, or wondering.

End-of-life support

With a terminal diagnosis, you're navigating a medical system while trying to be there for the person you love. I offer knowledgeable, non-medical support for the patient and their family, bridging the gap between the medical team and the people who need someone in their corner.

legacy + STORYTELLING projects

A guided, personalized experience that draws out and documents the stories, memories, and details that make you who you are — and captures them in a form that both works for you, and that your family will enjoy for years to come. Every person's project looks different, because every person is different.

Create an end-of-life plan that reflects your wishes
in 3 simple steps

Create an end-of-life plan that reflects your wishes in 3 simple steps

01. Book a readiness review call

Book a FREE call to assess your family readiness (and potential next steps)

02. Strategy

I learn where you are and want to go—and personalize a plan to YOUR needs

03. Ongoing support

Get a personalized plan and an expert communicator to help execute it

WHY ME?

I'm the only corporate marketer turned death doula

who combines 25 years in communications with 20 years of personal experience with death and dying to help you have difficult conversations and get things done.

I understand the challenges busy professionals face balancing family, limited time, and professional goals and have decades of experience creating processes that work best for you.

Working together offers:

  • More flexibility for busy professionals already stretched thin

  • No geographic limits — you can work with me from anywhere

  • Fewer challenges getting started — no scheduling around commutes or office hours

  • The same quality of support as when I was in marketing — I've been working virtually for years

Here's what people ask most

What exactly is a death doula?

A death doula (also called an end-of-life doula) is a non-medical professional trained to support dying individuals and their families through the end-of-life process — emotionally, practically, educationally, and sometimes spiritually. Think of me as a knowledgeable, experienced guide who helps everyone involved feel less lost and more supported. I'm not a nurse, an attorney, or a financial advisor — I'm the person who sits in the gap between all of those and makes sure you understand what's happening and what your options actually are.

How is a death doula different from hospice?

Hospice is an essential medical service — and if you or someone you love needs it, please contact them as soon as possible. But hospice has limits (thanks, Medicare). I complement hospice by providing more time, more individualized attention, more advocacy, and more availability. We're not either/or. We're better together.

What is advance care planning, and why does it matter?

Advance care planning is the process of documenting your healthcare wishes, naming the people who will make decisions on your behalf if you can't, and making sure everyone who needs to know actually knows. It's not just a legal form — done right, it's a values-based roadmap that protects your family from having to make impossible decisions without guidance. It's the most important thing most people have never done, and it's exactly where I start with almost every client.

Do I have to be facing a terminal illness to work with you?

Absolutely not. In fact, the most powerful thing you can do is plan before you need it. Advance care planning is for anyone who has people they love and wishes they'd like honored. The earlier you start, the better protected everyone is.

Is everything confidential?

100%. Everything shared in our work together stays private and confidential — full stop.

Do you only work with people in Minnesota?

Nope. I work both virtually and in-person, which means I can work with you from anywhere. No commutes, no scheduling gymnastics. Just real support when and where you need it.

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FREE 5-DAY EMAIL COURSE

Go from dreading end-of-life conversation to meaningful family dialogue (without the drama!)

Not having these conversations costs peace of mind, the risk of stressful crisis decisions, and the fear of repeating painful death experiences. This free course changes that. In five short daily emails, you get a framework for confidently sharing end-of-life wishes and achieving peace of mind, even if your family has never talked about death.

You worked hard for a good life. You deserve a good death, too.

If you've been putting this off... I get it. It isn't the easiest thing to start. But you don't have to figure it out alone.

Virtual sessions available — work with me from anywhere.

Minneapolis, MN-based death doula and advance care planner. Personalized end-of-life solutions for busy GenX professionals and families.

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